This weekend’s scripture readings invite me to ponder a very human dilemma. Sometimes it takes a major shift inside our heads to make things work. And that is what Jesus is asking us to do in this weekend’s Gospel (Matthew 22:1-14): shift our way of thinking, in a big way. Like the folks in the gospel, we have all been invited to the grand banquet called “life,” and our host is God. Unfortunately, however, too many of us are missing the main course, because we are distracted by the hors d’oeuvres, the little stuff around the edges, which is always kind of tempting, rarely can ever fill us up properly.
So, what is life’s “main course?” It is called “communion,” and it means being a wholehearted member of God’s family, with no split loyalties and nothing held back.
Jesus gives us a look at the exact opposite of this in the gospel: the man who just shows up for some free food but does not bother to put on one of the free wedding garments that are available at the door, because he is not planning on staying long. Too much of life is lived that way, disengaged, on the periphery, with one eye on the exit all the time. Where is the joy in that?
God has something much better in mind for us when he invited us into this life. And if we can shift the way we habitually look at the world, we will be able to see where real life and joy are waiting for us. First, in a solid, deep-rooted connectedness to the Lord. That deep connection to the Lord will ground everything else in our life and will give us the inner resources to become world-class friends to one another, friends who know how to give life and how to receive it, faithful friends who have staying power for the long haul.
Everything else in life pales into insignificance when compared to that abiding connection with God and God’s people, that bonding that fills our hearts and brings us peace. So why feed our souls junk food? Why settle for lives that are throwaways? Instead, step up to the Lord’s table, find out what the main course of life tastes like, and never be hungry again.
Peace and blessings!
Fr. George Couturier
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